Born in the Month Ghana was Birthed, Nii Ajorwor Ampa Perbi is here!

INTRODUCTION: Let Them Eat Cake!
“LET THEM EAT CAKE!” is one of history’s most famous quotations, popularly attributed to Queen Marie Antoinette of France.

The story goes that when she was informed that French peasants had no bread to eat, she supposedly responded: “Qu’ils mangent de la brioche!” More accurately translated, this means, “Let them eat brioche!” Brioche is a rich, buttery French bread.

But here’s the interesting historical twist: Marie Antoinette almost certainly never said it! The philosopher Jean-Jacques Rousseau attributed a similar remark to an unnamed “great princess.” The association with Marie Antoinette emerged much later, in 1843, some fifty years after her execution. Historians believe the story became a convenient way of portraying her as an insensitive, extravagant aristocrat, hopelessly detached from the struggles of ordinary people.

The leadership lesson, however, is timeless. Whether or not she actually uttered those words, the phrase has become one of history’s most enduring metaphors for leadership disconnected from the lived realities of the people it governs. Sometimes, a leader’s greatest failure is not necessarily what they say, but how far removed they have become from the realities their people face. And that is a lesson worth remembering!

REFLECTION (or the Lack Thereof) AT THE REFLECTING POOL
This, to me, speaks volumes about Donald Trump and the Republicans heading into the American midterm elections. There is something profoundly ironic about standing at the Reflecting Pool and failing to reflect on the economic suffering of the people. More importantly, failing to craft a message that acknowledges their anxieties and offers reassurance about their economic realities.

Consider Trump’s November 2 address. The irony is hard to miss:

  • The setting: The Lincoln Memorial Reflecting Pool, on the eve of the midterm elections.
  • The speech: Approximately 54 minutes.
  • The subject: A remarkably detailed account of renovations, including rusty pipes, joints, rebar, paint and algae.
  • The missing emphasis: A compelling closing argument addressing the cost of living, affordability and the economic anxieties of ordinary Americans.

That is precisely the point Barack Obama was making in his October 24 remarks about Trump’s apparent obsession with gold ornaments, White House ballroom decorations and other renovations. Obama’s criticism was essentially that the president seemed more preoccupied with beautifying the White House than addressing the financial pressures confronting American families. And Trump apparently didn’t get it. Neither, it seems, did much of his administration.

The night before the midterms, when the administration had a precious opportunity to make its closing argument to voters, the occasion was squandered on algae, rusted pipes and renovation details! The irony is almost too rich: to stand at a Reflecting Pool and do anything but reflect!

Staying with the water metaphor, perhaps tonight the political descendants of Marie Antoinette will encounter a tidal #wave that jolts them out of their leadership stupor. A blue wave!

A BAD REFLECTION
Perhaps the most extraordinary detail of Trump’s address was that he actually joked about renaming the Reflecting Pool after himself! That is almost too symbolic to ignore.

The tragedy of leadership is not always that leaders fail to see the suffering of the people. Sometimes, they see it but are so preoccupied with their own reflection that they fail to respond.

At the Reflecting Pool, America needed a reflection on the economy, affordability and the anxieties of ordinary families. Instead, it got a presentation on rusty pipes by rusty leadership. Marie Antoinette may never have said, “Let them eat cake.” But the disconnect her alleged words represent remains very real.

Leadership is not about admiring the reflection of power. It is about reflecting on the realities of the people.

And granted, introspection and self-reflection have never exactly been Trump’s strongest attributes. But what about those around him? Where are the advisers and associates with their heads properly screwed on, courageous enough to offer honest feedback? A leader’s blind spots become even more dangerous when surrounded by people who refuse to hold up a mirror.

CONCLUSION: For Offering Cake, You Eat Pie!
Trump and the Republicans may well be in for a trouncing at the polls tonight. For offering cake, they may end up eating humble pie!

The expression “Let them eat cake” has endured as a timeless metaphor for an elite so disconnected from the realities of ordinary people that it cannot even comprehend their suffering. Though the historical accuracy of the quotation remains questionable, its cultural and political significance has endured for centuries.

There is a leadership lesson here that transcends American politics: When leaders become more preoccupied with the appearance of the institution than with the experience of the people it exists to serve, they have a serious leadership problem.

The people are not looking for leaders who merely admire their own reflections. They are looking for leaders who have the humility to look beyond themselves, the empathy to understand their struggles and the courage to do something about them.

Because ultimately, leadership is not about the splendour of the palace, the gold on its walls or the beauty of its reflecting pools. It is about the people!

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58 Comments

  1. Eric Sinayobye says:
    March 9, 2021

    This is indeed beautiful! Welcome, Nii Ajowor! May the Lors bless and keep you indeed!

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 9, 2021

      Thanks and amen, Eric. Long time!

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  2. Yvette Anthea Adzo Owusu says:
    March 9, 2021

    Congratulations Yaw and Anyele!
    God is good.

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 9, 2021

      Thank you Yvette. Yes, God is good!

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  3. Elsa says:
    March 9, 2021

    You are truly blessed dearest Nii Ajorwor Ampa.

    So much love from all of us here. ❤

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  4. Jackie Hanson says:
    March 9, 2021

    So refreshing! I’ve always known that names are powerful and significant but this makes even more meaning to me. I love your children’s names and I’m definitely going to take a cue. Thank you Dr. P! Welcome Nii Ajorwor Ampa Perbi.

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 9, 2021

      Thanks for your kind words, Jackie. Glad this has been useful. May you and your generation surpass us and ours!

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  5. Brooke says:
    March 9, 2021

    Beautiful. You’re truly blessed. Praise be to God.

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  6. Christian K. Lumorvi says:
    March 9, 2021

    Congratulations Doc and Madam. You make things look so beautiful. May Ajorwor grow in wisdom and stature. I wish you all the best, Sir and Madam

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 9, 2021

      Thanks and amen. It must be the glory of the Lord!

      Reply
  7. Obiri-Mainoo says:
    March 9, 2021

    Interesting with a lot of lessons!
    Our congratulations!

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 10, 2021

      Glad you found this useful, Obiri! Grateful for your hearty congratulations!

      Reply
  8. Thomas Dawo says:
    March 9, 2021

    I am happy for you and family for the addition of a truly blessed child “Nii Ajoryor Ampa Perbi”. May the name follow her. May she be truly blessed to truly blessed the world 🙏.
    Grace for you and family. Stay truly blessed ❤️

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 10, 2021

      Thanks Thomas, for being happy for us and blessing our SON (NII); not daughter (which would’ve been NAA). We appreciate you!

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  9. Emmanuel Adomako says:
    March 9, 2021

    Blessed!

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  10. Naa Borteley says:
    March 9, 2021

    Beautiful Blessings. Your household is truly blessed. Keep inspiring us all🙏🏾.

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  11. Freda Bediako-Puni says:
    March 9, 2021

    We bless God for his tangible blessings if children.
    Congratulations

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 10, 2021

      Tangible blessing indeed! Thanks and amen, Freda!

      Reply
  12. Jennifer says:
    March 10, 2021

    All praise and thanks belong to Jehovah God. Congratulations to the family. Welcome, Ajorwor Ampa, may the good Lord grant you special knowledge and wisdom which surpasses all understanding now and forevermore. Amen

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 10, 2021

      Amen and amen, Jennifer. Thanks for sharing in our joy and blessing!

      Reply
  13. Reindorf & Akosua Perbi says:
    March 10, 2021

    Akwaaba, Nii Ajorwor Ampa; welcome. You truly are a blessing.

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 10, 2021

      Thank you Grandpa & Grandma Perbi! We appreciate your life and example; we see farther today because we stand on your shoulders!

      Reply
  14. Alex Owusu-Biney says:
    March 10, 2021

    God is faithful and a rewarder of them that diligently follow HIM.

    Blessings

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 10, 2021

      Amen oo! Thanks for setting the example, Sir Alex!

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      • Alex Owusu-Biney says:
        March 10, 2021

        😁😁😁😁

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  15. Abigail says:
    March 10, 2021

    Beautiful!!!

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 10, 2021

      Just like you, Abigail 🙂

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    • Kwame Andoh-Kumi says:
      March 11, 2021

      Congrats to you and Mrs (Dr) P. once again!! I was looking forward to this naming ceremony and you did not disappoint. Historic and meaningful name for my nephew. May God bless him indeed and expand his territories!!!

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  16. Naa Marteki Nkwantabisa says:
    March 10, 2021

    Beautiful name indeed❤, welcome to the family Nii Ajorwor Ampa Perbi. Congratulations Yaw and Anyele. May the name of God be praised🙏🏻.

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 10, 2021

      Beautiful and (as someone put it) euphonic! lol! The name of the LORD be praised indeed!

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  17. Kingsley Kwayisi says:
    March 10, 2021

    The intentional living and raising children is a. Ministry worth pursuing each facet of life. Thanks Dr P for leading!

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  18. Kingsley Kwayisi says:
    March 10, 2021

    The intentional living and raising children is a Ministry worth pursuing each day of our lives . Thanks Dr P and Anyele for leading and setting the bar so high. God bless you and the seven in all their pursuits!

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 10, 2021

      KK my brother! You are close enough to know it’s grace and grace alone! May all of our lives, your family’s and ours, demand a supernatural explanation!

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  19. Naa Shormeh says:
    March 10, 2021

    Beautiful…I love the unique names you give to your children and the meanings.I have definitely learnt something new.

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 10, 2021

      You’re too kind, Naa Shormeh. Glad to have added some value to you your life; thanks for making ours worth while too!

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  20. Joe Wilson-Tetteh says:
    March 10, 2021

    To God be all glory and welcome to Nii Adorwor

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 10, 2021

      Nii Ajorwor thanks you, Uncle Joe! Lol! I’m glad he has all these rich uncles like you!

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    • Hirwa Israel says:
      March 11, 2021

      Awesome. Very well thought-out names. Inspired to pay attention when naming children. Shalom.

      Reply
  21. Alex Owusu-Biney says:
    March 10, 2021

    😁😁😁😁

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  22. Nana Amma says:
    March 10, 2021

    What a handsome blessing! Welcome, Nii Ajorwor! What a powerful name and story behind the name.

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  23. Nii Nortey says:
    March 11, 2021

    I look forward to how his mom will be shouting his name and chasing him around the house. Congratulations to the family.

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  24. Sylvia Ashley says:
    March 11, 2021

    Wow! Such a profound and powerful name! Nii Ajorwor Ampa…I see greatness, a true blessing to his generation and beyond. Dr. Perbi , you and everyone connected to you are blessed .

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  25. Afi says:
    March 11, 2021

    Beautiful name. You are truly blessed and the good Lord bless you more!

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  26. Sam Ngugi says:
    March 11, 2021

    Awesome and inspiring! Names with meaning and purpose💪🏾

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  27. Seth Quaye says:
    March 12, 2021

    Yaw, this is beautiful and very thoughtful. Nii is blessed indeed! No weapon fashioned against him shall prosper. He has escaped like a bird out of the snare of the fowler. He shall fulfill purpose in Jesus Christ’s name. So shall it be!

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  28. Kofi Adjei Mensah says:
    March 12, 2021

    Congratulations and blessings to the family .Welcome Nii Ajorwor

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  29. Ofeibea says:
    March 13, 2021

    Congratulations to this amazing Family. I have been following this family and watching their pics and all. From their wedding till now. Ajoor-nye leelen. (You are indeed Blessed). Welcome to Baby Nii Ajoorwor Ampa♥️

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 16, 2021

      You are too kind, Ofeibea. Grateful for your encouragement. God is good; He gets all the glory!

      Reply
  30. Gaby says:
    March 14, 2021

    Beautiful baby and wonderful revelation and meaning. I pray the blessings of the Lord keep pouring over you and your generations. Welcome little arrow!

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 16, 2021

      Amen and amen, Saint Gaby of Guatemala!:-)

      Reply
  31. Bill Dadzie says:
    March 14, 2021

    Congratulations and I tap into the blessing of Seven. A year by this time I will give a testimony.Welcomd Nii Ajowor!!

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    • Yaw Perbi says:
      March 16, 2021

      Amen, Bill! From your lips to His ears!

      Reply
  32. Adazewa Parker Dadson says:
    March 17, 2021

    Congratulations 🎊 and I tap into this Blessing

    Reply
  33. Nancy Dzifa Dusu says:
    February 17, 2022

    Ajorwor Ampa. What a wonderful name to give to such an adorable and blessed child. Yahweh be praised. U r indeed blessed.

    Reply

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